The dynamic balance of cellular homeostasis is often maintained by opposing regulatory pathways, yet most genetic screens interrogate them in one direction and therefore miss the bidirectional gene-gene interactions that shape complex phenotypes such as DNA damage response (DDR). Here, we present PAIR (Parallel Activation and Interference CRISPR), a bidirectional perturbation platform that enables simultaneous activation and suppression of distinct genes within the same cell using CRISPR activation (CRISPRa) and Cas13d RNA knockdown. Applying PAIR to the CRISPR/Cas9 induced DSB repair screen, we mapped gene-gene interactions across competing repair branches and identify synergistic perturbations, including NBN activation combined with suppression of end-joining factors, that shift repair outcomes toward homology-directed repair (HDR) and improve the precision of CRISPR-based gene editing. Using coupled PAIR with single-cell transcriptomic, we further demonstrated that NBN activation induces inflammatory and interferon programs, whereas co-suppression of end-joining factors buffers this response, revealing transcriptional states missed by conventional unidirectional perturbations. To translate these findings into non-viral chimeric antigen receptor (CAR) T cell engineering, we developed an mRNA-based strategy for parallel overexpression and knockdown of NBN-anchored DDR effectors in primary T cells, priming the T cells into a transient HDR-favored state that enhances the efficiency of CAR knock-in on the TRAC locus. Together, the PAIR system provides a general framework for studying opposing regulatory networks, uncovering hidden cell states, and guiding cell-state engineering through bidirectional perturbation.